Tuesday, February 22, 2011

The Fantastic Power Of Goal Setting

By Hanne Klein


It can be quite easy for some people to set goals for themselves. They are enthused with ambitions and motivation and have enough self-discipline to stay focused on the goal until they have achieved the desired outcome. On the contrary there are those who would like to achieve something but have not got the aspiration or there is not a strong enough reason for them to go for what they want.

When you decide on the goal you want to reach then it can be a huge help if you follow a step by step method. Using this technique is similar to planning your future and is more or less a guaranty that you will reach your desired goal that if you are prepared to work hard for it and do what it takes to get there.

Follow a step by step goal setting plan

You can set your goals in different ways to suit the individual person but it is a good idea to start with what you want to achieve as your lifetime goals first. Next you break your long time goal into smaller manageable goals that you can easily achieve without loosing interest.

As soon as you have your life time goal written down and you have a fairly good idea about where you want your life to go then it will be a lot easier to achieve your lifetime goal if you cut it into smaller sections. Start with where you want to be in 5 years from now and what can you do in the following year to be a bit closer to the goal you set for yourself in the beginning of the year.

The next step you should take is to cut your goal down into much smaller measurable goals that you can easily achieve. Take one month at the time and write down a plan for what you can do towards reaching your long time goals.

Your written goals should be placed in a place where you see them often so you can follow the progress you are making towards them and this will also motivate you to stick to it. By writing your goals down you are setting a powerful and very forceful energy into motion.

What are the benefits for goal setting?

When you see and feel the benefit of goal setting and how beneficial it is to your self-esteem to see what you have achieved it will encourage you to keep moving towards your goal. Reading about your goal setting and making your own plans will inspire you to move forward.

When you experience the wonderful feeling that come with achieving something you will get a whole new respect for yourself and the people close to you will also start to respect you more. The fact that you are sticking to what you have set out to do will add to your self-confidence and motivate you to follow your dreams.

Sticking to your goal setting plan should not be a problem for you once you have hit your first goal. You will be so motivated and encouraged that you will want to keep going for the next goal in your plan.




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Friday, February 18, 2011

How to Select A Keynote Speaker For An After Dinner Speech

By Thurman Mitch Owens


Whether you are planning an event, or a conference you may look at hiring a keynote speaker. At events and conferences, often there will be a number of different speakers. The keynote speaker is the main speaker. Similar to the headline act at a gig or concert!

The reasons you are picking a keynote speaker weighs on a lot of decisions. Who will be attending your event? What sort of people are they? Are they business people? Is your crowd going to be members of the public? Are they part of a particular niche? E.g. you might be expecting a sales team. Would a sports speaker really be a good idea? However what about a sales or business speaker? Or perhaps even a motivational speaker would be brilliant for a sales audience.

Finding the right keynote speaker for your event or conference can be a tricky job. Generally, there are two methods to find a keynote speaker. Firstly you can go direct. Say if you needed a sports speaker, you could find their agent. Most keynote speakers will have their own website with contact details. Find a contact by typing their name into Google.

Don't rush into picking your speaker

Why choose the first speaker you find? Speakers are a growing business. Imagine all those sports celebrities that make a career from after dinner speeches Back to choosing a keynote speaker, find out as much as you can about the speaker. Don't for example find a more risque speaker for a children's event!

Filter down your speakers

Try and make a short list of under ten. Now you have a good selection, but not too many speakers. Then you can contact the speakers for pricing and availability one by one.

What find a speaker through an agency?

A different approach is going through an agency. Agencies specialise in sourcing keynote speakers. They can find the right speaker for you and help with the negotiations. This advice is absolutely vital. You can fill in the agent on what type of speaker you want, and instead of you having to go away and research, they can then match the speaker to your event, taking out the hard work.

Putting on the event

The key to a successful event is good organisation. A reliable speaker and strict itinerary are a must. Ensure you have the relevant contracts. Can you imagine your speaker not showing? Again opting to use an agency is the best way to avoid this issue.

Ensure you enjoy the conference or event. And don't forget - choosing the right person is crucial to a successful impression on your clients.




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Saturday, February 5, 2011

How Significant Is Having A Positive Attitude?

By Pauleen Kennedy


Positive thinking always comes in handy whether it is the matter of heart or career. If you are positive, your chances of getting what you want improve considerably. Positive attitude has helped people attain what they wish for in all cultures.

Positive thinking is really powerful. Law of Attraction is based on it. It suggests that positive thinking is a way of attracting what you want.

Think of your mind as a magnet. If you are positive, then you will attract positive people. However, if you have a negative way of thinking, then this is what you will get from your life.

In this article, you will be given a few tips. Follow them, and you will see that the results will come out in your favor.

Make lists. Enlist the things that you really want in your life. This way you will have a plan, and you will act accordingly. You should not focus on your needs. Include what you desire in that list. Such an approach can do wonders for you. Successful people have followed this approach.

To further elaborate, let us say that you have a bill to pay. You need money for it. If you will focus on getting enough to pay the bill, then you are missing the point. Focus on the money that is out there in the world that you can earn.

To some of you, this might sound a bit far-fetched. However, it is not. You can make things happen for you if you set your mind to it. Many people have done that, why cannot you?

Doing so will not cost you a single penny but you will gain much. Even if you are not able to achieve what you want, it will help improve your psychological well-being.




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Thursday, February 3, 2011

Methods To HandleEmbarrassing Situations

By Jeraldine Winters


Most of us have been in a situation where we ended up being the focus of someone's joke. When this happens, are you uncomfortable or hurt? Do you run away and never show your face again? Of course not! There are better ways of handling an embarrassing situation and here are some of them:

Ignore the joke. Bullies are notorious for picking on people they think they can push around. These people are usually insecure and short on attention. To get it, they make fun of other people. The trick is to ignore these idiots. By not giving them the attention they crave, they start losing interest in you and move on to the next victim.

Joke back. If you're one of those rare individuals born with sharp wit, why not use it to your benefit? Give the bully a dose of their own medicine.

Just make sure your comeback is witty and delivered in style. This has two purposes. The first is to defend yourself. The second is to intimidate your attacker. If everyone laughs when you make your comeback, the bully will think twice about delivering another blow as he or she might come up short and become the butt of the joke.

Accept it. If you are supremely confident you can actually just laugh it off. Confident people can actually laugh at themselves without being embarrassed.

Look behind the joke. Perhaps understanding the reason the joke was made in the first place can give you insight to your opponent's feelings. Perhaps in a previous incident you hurt him or her unintentionally and the person is taking it out on you through a joke. In private, ask the person if there is anything wrong. You might be surprised by the answer.

Everyone needs the skills to handle themselves in situations that are disconcerting or even embarrassing. Remember, it's not what happened to you but how you handle it that counts.




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Wednesday, February 2, 2011

True Happiness Is Something That All People Long For

By Ginnie Wilkins


Leading a happy life is not rocket science. Happiness is not a mysterious magical unicorn; it can be attained fairly easily. The first and most important concept you have to grasp is this: only you can decide whether you are going to be happy or not. Anything that affects your happiness is affecting you because you are letting it. However, following a few simple tips can help you lead the life you've always wanted to lead.

Smiling is good for you. Not only does it make you look friendlier, it reduces stress and improves your immune system. Smiling just might save your life someday.

Walking is another thing that does wonders for you. You don't have to be a fitness fanatic to take a walk every now and then. It's excellent cardio and boosts your energy levels so that you can have a brighter day. And it helps you keep in shape. Being in good shape always feels better than being out of shape.

Remember when your mother forced to eat your vegetables? She was on the right track. Fruits and veggies keep you healthy and reduce the risk of contracting many bad diseases. As the old saying goes, an apple a day keeps the doctor away. And lowers your health care costs.

Many people forsake books in favor of the television. At some point in history, people became convinced that book were for nerds or dedicated scholastic types; they decided that books weren't for them and the only thing that they could do to have fun was watch TV. Books are incredible sources of knowledge, information, and entertainment. They don't require electricity, so you don't have to plug it up. That last fact by itself can end up saving you a lot of money, and that's always good.

Keep in touch with your friends. Sometimes, when you're feeling down, they can help pick you up. Everyone needs people to vent their frustrations to; a good friend will listen to you complain and be there for you when you need them. If you have friends like this, call them up.

Being around kids and senior citizens can have a great effect on you. Children help us remember what it was like to be a kid ourselves, and older people can impart wisdom that we can benefit from.

You only have one life to live. Make the most of it. Don't get caught up in the stresses of everyday life. Learn to love the simple things and cherish those that you love. Do this, and you will certainly begin to live a happier existence.




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