If you have broken up with your partner and you are desperate to get boyfriend back, there are plenty of things that you have to do to achieve this. First of all, it is crucial that you do not manipulate the situation, and that you work out whether or not it is rightly you two to rekindle your relationship.
If you think that there is light at the end of the tunnel and that you have not necessarily broken up for a very good reason, then there are a number of steps that you have to take in order to get back together.
The first thing you may want to do is to make sure that you give your boyfriend space. It is no good harassing them and trying to get in touch with all the time to get back together. Doing this will simply put them off and will really damage your chances of becoming a couple once again. Make sure that you give them plenty of space so that you can both come to terms with the relationship ending.
At the same time it is important that you try to get over the breakup yourself and that you check it out with all of your friends, family, and anyone who will listen. The chances are you will be very down at this point and it is important for you to heal emotionally before you take the next step to get back together. Trying to get back together when you are still in an emotional state will be very difficult, and you need to get your confidence back first.
After a few weeks have passed and you have given both yourself and your ex-boyfriend plenty of space and time, you can give them a call and see how he's doing. Make sure that you keep everything fairly light during the call and do not chat to too long. The longer you talk, the more likely you are going to get onto the subject of the breakup and this is likely to put him off immediately. Instead, have a general chat about how things are going and suggest that you meet up sometime soon.
At the end of the day, the chances are that he is going to be missing you a great deal as well, even if he was the one who suggested that you broke up. If you act as if you did when you first met or when you were very happy together in your relationship, this will make it very likely that he will want to see you.
When you meet, display all of the confidence that you have managed to build up over the last few weeks. Being needy and desperate will put him off completely and therefore you need to display to him the person that he fell for in the first place.
If it doesn't, and he only sees you as a friend or does not want to get back together, then you simply have to accept this and move on.
If you think that there is light at the end of the tunnel and that you have not necessarily broken up for a very good reason, then there are a number of steps that you have to take in order to get back together.
The first thing you may want to do is to make sure that you give your boyfriend space. It is no good harassing them and trying to get in touch with all the time to get back together. Doing this will simply put them off and will really damage your chances of becoming a couple once again. Make sure that you give them plenty of space so that you can both come to terms with the relationship ending.
At the same time it is important that you try to get over the breakup yourself and that you check it out with all of your friends, family, and anyone who will listen. The chances are you will be very down at this point and it is important for you to heal emotionally before you take the next step to get back together. Trying to get back together when you are still in an emotional state will be very difficult, and you need to get your confidence back first.
After a few weeks have passed and you have given both yourself and your ex-boyfriend plenty of space and time, you can give them a call and see how he's doing. Make sure that you keep everything fairly light during the call and do not chat to too long. The longer you talk, the more likely you are going to get onto the subject of the breakup and this is likely to put him off immediately. Instead, have a general chat about how things are going and suggest that you meet up sometime soon.
At the end of the day, the chances are that he is going to be missing you a great deal as well, even if he was the one who suggested that you broke up. If you act as if you did when you first met or when you were very happy together in your relationship, this will make it very likely that he will want to see you.
When you meet, display all of the confidence that you have managed to build up over the last few weeks. Being needy and desperate will put him off completely and therefore you need to display to him the person that he fell for in the first place.
If it doesn't, and he only sees you as a friend or does not want to get back together, then you simply have to accept this and move on.
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